Second auntie

After months of treatment, in Singapore and overseas, but nothing seems to be of help. In the end, we could only bid farewell to our lovely Er Gu. RIP.

When I heard about Er Gu's situation, I visited her at her place with my dad. She then got hospitalized few weeks later where I also visited her. Her children and husband finally sent her to a hospice where she spent almost one month before she left us. The last week was the most heart wrenching. From being able to sit up and walk, to bed ridden to unconscious. It saddening to see one's condition deteriorating. Whenever I see her, I could hardly converse with her cause my Hokkien is so bad. So I always only smiled at her and she would smile back. So the last thing I could remember is her smile. 

In the past, when granny was still around, she would visit her whenever she is free. I always remember her coming early in the morning. So we always call her the morning auntie. After granny passed away, I actually haven seen her in years, so when I heard from her, it is actually quite a shock. Everyone could have cancer, but sometimes, the question is, why is it her? She's such a nice lady. But I guess sometimes, god just have its own plans.

The saddest person after her husband and kids would be my dad and her siblings. There used to be so many of them, but 1 by 1, they are starting to leave us. Just last year, their oldest brother left us too. Death is inevitable, We never know who is next, but always treasure our loved ones.

Tomorrow would be the funeral, though she is gone but the memories of her smile last forever. RIP Er gu

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Daddy has a good friend. His name is uncle Andrew. He is not very rich or very handsome or what. But he is a super nice uncle. When ever daddy needs help, he will always be there, whenever there is a funeral, he will always be there to help. I always ask him, why is he so nice. He would reply me, since I'm free, I just come and help out. He always come earlier and leave later than us. And on top of everything, he is still working but for my dads sake, he will alway takes leave or come after work just to help up. I really like him, he makes my world a better place, I want to be as nice as him, but sometimes it's hard.  Not everyone can be like him so he's my model.